IN LOVING MEMORY OF

Charlene

Charlene Roberts-Hayden Profile Photo

Roberts-Hayden

Sep 24, 1938 — May 11, 2025

Newton

Obituary

Charlene Roberts-Hayden entered peacefully into eternal rest on Sunday, May 11, 2025. Known for her unwavering and devoted faith, she is also remembered for her steadfast determination and grit, selfless service to others, and her deep appreciation for life's joys and blessings.

Born and raised in Medford, MA, the daughter of Charles and Doris Roberts, Charlene graduated from Notre Dame Academy 1956, before receiving her B.A. in Mathematics from Boston University in 1960, where she became a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority.

Following the receipt of her degree, Charlene pursued a career in software engineering and design with GTE Government Systems, where she was an early pioneer in the Ada programming language, a once classified coding  technology developed for the U.S. Department of Defense. Like other groundbreaking but long-overlooked women of color who helped shape the fields of mathematics and computer programming, Charlene was a hidden figure and a trailblazer in her own right. Charlene traveled globally as founder and Chair and then Vice Chair of the Ada Technology Conference, which expanded Ada use outside of GTE and influenced modern day software and engineering systems.

Throughout her career, Charlene shared her love of mathematics, teaching and tutoring at the middle and high school levels. Relentlessly driven and resolute in her pursuits, after retiring from GTE Charlene's passion for the intersection of technology and education led her to adjunct professor roles at local colleges and universities, and she continued to mentor and support young scholars as a tutor. In addition, she came out of retirement to answer the call as the Director of The Archdiocese of Boston's Office for Black Catholic Ministries.

Charlene was deeply devoted to service and volunteerism. She served in various roles at Mother Caroline Academy, Boston, MA, taught bridge and mentored young women at the Massachusetts Correctional Institution, Framingham, MA, led faithfully as a Eucharistic Minister at Sacred Heart Church, Newton, MA, served on the Board for the Cottagers (a charitable organization formed and led by African American women homeowner's benefiting their Martha's Vineyard community), and for many years sang alongside her friends and partners in faith for the Archdiocese of Boston Black Catholic Choir.

More than anything else, Charlene regarded her family as her greatest gift. Whether steadfastly supporting academic pursuits, bundled up for hours at the skating rink, or standing in the rain at the side of a lacrosse or baseball field, she was a champion for her children and grandchildren. Her love of family was generously extended to so many close friends she deeply cherished and loved as family.

Proud mother of Robbie Hayden (now reunited), Dr. Deborah Hayden, Kevin Hayden, Esq., and Karen McAdams, she is also survived by her five grandchildren: James Hayden Hall, Ella & Sebastian McAdams, Jordan & Carson Hayden, son-in-law, Jeff McAdams, daughter-in-law, Michelle Hayden and her four nephews: Eric Robinson, Curtis Robinson, Douglas Robinson and Thomas Roberts II.

While Charlene's career took her around the globe, her true happy place was spending time with family and friends on her beloved Martha's Vineyard. A lifelong summer visitor, she designed and built a home in Oak Bluffs in 1991, a cherished gathering place for three generations. An expert gardener and avid tennis fan, in summer months she could usually be found tending her beautiful gardens or on the tennis court where she was revered for her fierce serve. The home, the memories that live there and those that are still to come stand as a legacy and testament to her love of summer, precious time with family, and enduring friendships.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Charlene's memory to:

Mother Caroline Academy, 515 Blue Hill Ave, Boston, MA 02121

https://mcaec.org/my-donate/

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Funeral Services

Visitation

May
18

Sunday

6:00 - 8:00 pm

Funeral Mass

May
19

Monday

St. Katharine Drexel Parish

517 Blue Hill Ave, Boston, MA 02121

Starts at 10:00 am

Reception

May
19

Monday

St. Katharine Drexel Parish

517 Blue Hill Ave, Boston, MA 02121

Starts at 11:30 am

Private Interment

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